- Internal suffering that people won't like you or they'll forget you is all invented by you. It’s based on your story, not on what is actually happening. Your internal story is the story you made up. What if you made up a new one that you are good enough?
- Are you taking things seriously or personally? Serious implies that you care about it, you're going for it, and you may fail but you'll learn. Personal implies that your life is based on being perfect and that paralyzes (fear). The bigger the mental gap betweenshould and could, the bigger stress. Ask us for a free DISC Adapted assessment so you can see the gap yourself.
In the age of feeding our brain with iCrazy we fail to notice, dream, connect, do. The emptiness that comes from the constant need to see if anyone still remembers you online reinforces the constricting stories we tell ourselves. Other ways to think about it: